
A few weeks ago, I was a sober sister for a Greek dance downtown. My job was simple. I checked people in at the door, drew a star on their hands with a black sharpie, and sent them on their way to the bus waiting outside. A seemingly laid-back night turned into one of high energy and emotion that led me to believe that, perhaps, those Greek stereotypes have more to them than people give them credit for. The behavior of some of the people was so disgraceful; it shed an awful, dark light on the Greek community as a whole.
Let me explain. The night started around 9 p.m. One house did not have their date sheet, so some of the guests we couldn't properly check in. After several phone calls later, that was taken care of. Alright, so there was a small bump, no big deal.
But then it got interesting. Bare-chested men and women barely draped in satin togas filed in from the cool spring air to receive their stars. The smell of alcohol was so strong, people standing at a four foot distance from me smelled as if they had showered with the keg.
One woman came in and looked over the list and pointed to a name. "Yeah I'm here, my name is Emily." The sober sister, a native to Kearney, sat next to me scrutinizing the woman. "Really, your name is *Emily? Because I'm pretty sure that it's *Ashley, because we went to high school together," she said. (*=names changed) The woman already had the star on her hand from the guy who was working the table with us who had the attention span of a goldfish, so she walked out and onto the bus.
Later on, we discovered that she was so intoxicated that she had thrown up on the bus and was taken back to the check out point.
Did I mention that the bus was a charter bus, complete with TVs?
Another guy had passed out on the bus and hit his head. To top it off, our bus driver was an elderly man who was just astonished as us by his passenger's behavior.
The dance wasn't much better. Around 10:30 we had packed up and decided to stop allowing people in, since people were sneaking in and were so intoxicated that they were being sent back.
Little to our knowledge, the goldfish guy helping us out at the table left a note: "If you want to go to the dance, draw a star on your hand."
He left a black sharpie next to the note.
Great.
At the dance, people were tripping over chairs, tables, other people and their own two feet. The dancing wasn't much better. As one woman had said to me, "it looks more like soft porn than grinding." After sitting at the dance watching this for an hour, I left and went to bed.
As a Greek member, I believe that this is saying something if you are bashing your own group. I was very embarrassed for those who were acting like complete dim-wits that night, and I hope to never see anything that ridiculous at a Greek function ever again. It was just like a movie. Greeks dressed in togas, drunk beyond stupidity.
I'll add this note, there were non-Greeks there who were behaving just as badly.
As Greeks, we know the stereotypes set against us by TV shows, movies and the media. You'd figure those Greeks with non-Greek dates would set an example for their guest's behavior. The Greek community strives to keep a good reputation with higher grade point averages than the general student body and our numerous philanthropic and community service activities. Why throw all of our hard-earned reputation away in one night?
I'm not against going out, drinking and having fun. Do that all you want. But, at a Greek function, let's have something more positive to say about ourselves besides how hot that chick looked in her tiny toga or how much booze he could chug in a minute.